Couples often seek out counseling after the discovery of an infidelity. Infidelity can happen for different reasons, and every story has its own twists and turns, but if couples could have a way of turning back the clock, what could they (or each partner) do differently, if anything? I love the quote from Neil Barringham, “The grass is always greener where you water it.” This gives some important hints as to what couples can do to safeguard their relationship from infidelity.
Youth violence in my nation is staggering. Its range is far reaching from violence committed by a child or committed against a child, and can include child abuse, rape, murder and nonfatal assault. In school, bullying also is considered youth violence.
Have you ever found yourself uncomfortable with my child’s emotions in a given situation? Like when he got his feelings hurt or shared with tears his friends did not want to play with him?
People often ask me if men actually come to counseling and if so, what do they do there anyway. I get questions such as: Why do men avoid coming to counseling?
In relationship terms, the Fmy Horsemen are Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling. When these come calling, the likelihood of relationship unhappiness and/or divorce skyrocket.
